Rough and tough, but spring is ahead...

Beautiful New Year Celebrators

Beautiful New Year Celebrators

These need to be tried!!!

The Real One even brought a ton of parcels!

isn't that... the Real Thing TOMTEN!!ho ho ho...

* Kids & cousins together at Christmas time *

A long time has passed, seemingly, with too much turmoil going on around our family* for us to proceed in the way ment with Ros's program.

We have all been very upsidedown from time to time and exhausted.

Also we have just been through the darkest time of the year in Sweden, and for someone getting out very little it is a not so good time! Ros and mum are craving light!!!

But, now the light is turning back and the days are becoming longer again! Sun will return! Spring will come! We will take walks in the morning dew barefeet ... soon.

Ros is growing and is waiting for life to take her even further. And she is waiting for us to get hold of this ship and cruise the oceans! Here she comes!

*This was due to a report to the social authorities that our children ( or, some of them) would not be taken care of and would be 'depressed' and that we would be uncapable parents)(And it was suggested that we only care about Ros and not about the other children). Among a long list of things proposed as a clear truth these things reported made our whole family involved in this investigation that has been both deeply humiliating and tragic for the children and to some extent also to us, and most of all very, very energy- and timedraining. And very sad. Though, very learning!

The person reporting has obviously very much pain and succeeds in projecting it outside of the own person, but in a devastating way to all of us.

Ros program has suffered greately of this, as has our economy with hours and hours and hours of meetings and phonecalls, and many emotions rising in all of family. Having to be met and seen and looked at.

What the social authorities have ''come to'' (that we never doubted), having now had all the meetings, talks and looking into our most personal everything is: Our children are such wonderful children, being so beautiful and well mannerd and certainly loved, seen, looked after and cared for. Closing of case.

(And it is also obvious that we spend a good amount of time with all children and have wise and clear ways of meeting needs, taking care of each and every one in the best way possible.

And that it is not taking from the children what we do for Ros, it is giving them means to be toghether with her and it gives them great growth.

This process has taken great part of more than two months of our life. (When ended more than 4 months had passed!) And of Ros's first 5 month training program.

The sky is endlessly clear blue and promises that it is all worth it. What shall follow we do not know. Life is. We are alive and that's the very gift.

This is the gift.

Our family has Grown! We Rise & Shine and carry with us in our heart of hearts that this life is prescious, that we all can do more of our best

and our being toghether. We see that others pain is not ours, and they are not blamed for it - but neither can we live it for them or take it away.

"To err is human, to forgive is divine"

Love Light and Trust, from us to you...